When I first started this blog, I never thought I’d be saying (or typing) these words: I’m going for surgery!
Luckily it’s not a major health issue; I have a few fibroids and an ovarian cyst in my womb (all benign), something most women have at some point of their lives. However, mine has grown pretty big (imagine walking around with a tennis ball and a couple of golf balls in your abdomen 😱), so after 7 months of traditional Chinese medicine, it’s time for surgery. The gynaecologist doing my surgery is quite experienced (I can see his calendar is full of these kind of operation), so I’m sure I’m in good hands. 🙂
My surgery is scheduled for less than 48 hours from this post (to save you the trouble of calculating time zone differences 😆). It’s going to be my first time staying at a hospital overnight and having an operation, but based on some reading online, I expect I’ll be mostly sleeping for a couple of days after. 😅
In the meantime, I’ve scheduled a couple of video posts that I hope you’ll enjoy. 😀
I’ll post an update as soon I’m alert and have the energy to do so. Wish me luck!
~Nicolle ❤
A Self-Compassionate Letter
Dear Self,
It’s great that you’re optimistic about this surgery! Good luck. ❤
Hope you get well soon!!
I know someone who had the same thing and everything went smooth. So I know you’ll be just fine 😊
May I ask, what country do you live in?
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Thanks very much! I’m doing good, in fact I’m about to head back to work in a couple of days. 😀
I live in Malaysia. 🙂
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That’s great to hear! Ooh ok, I was just curious if you live in the US because of ridiculous health costs. But I think Malaysia has good health care access!
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Well, technically we do have high health care costs too (especially when Malaysian Ringgit is 1/4 of a US Dollar 😅), though I’ve heard it’s not as high as in the US. I’m lucky my husband’s health insurance covers most of it. 😀
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Ooh wow! I feel fortunate 😨. Everything is free here in Canada, but we pay high taxes. But quality of life is still great. But great to hear you had coverage, that’s a relief! Malaysia sounds great, I’ll have to go there one day, I know the food is amazing.
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Sounds like Canada is a great place to be! And I hope you do visit Malaysia, the food is certainly great. 🍛🍜🍚
(And I dare you to try durian! Hey, I’ve had a few foreigner colleagues who love them, so you might too. 😆)
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Yeah Canada is certainly a great place! Funny thing is we have durian here! I’ve tried it! It’s not too bad, but the smell tho 😂😂!
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Oh, haha, that’s good! 😆
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Saying prayers for your surgery and recovery!
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Thanks very much, Wanda! ❤️
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Wishing you a speedy recovery!!
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Sorry for the delay in responding and thanks very much for the well wishes, Tammy! ❤️
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BIG HUGS 💘 We’ll be here waiting 😀 I wish you well and and have a speedy recovery! X
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[BIG HUGS BACK] Thanks very much! Really appreciate it. ❤️
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💝💝💝
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Have a safe and smoothsailing surgery and healing, Nicolle. Have a good rest and don’t worry about anything. You are in good hands with so many prayers and blessings! 😀
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Thanks very much! I’m lucky to have so many people wishing me well. ❤
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Aw well I hope it goes well! Prayers sent!
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Thanks very much, Dominic! I’m sure it will. 😀
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Sorry to have just read this now. Hope the surgery went well. Keep the faith and stay positive!
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No worries and thanks, Mylene! ❤️
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Hi Nicolle, best wishes and will be here when you return 😀
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Thanks very much, Eric! Nice to know people are waiting for me at my digital home. 😀
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All the best wishes, warm hugs and hopes for a speedy recovery coming your way hon! Take care of yourself after (or rather, get that hubby of yours to do it) 🤗❤️
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Thanks very much, Jess! My mum’s helping, though I’m certainly getting my husband to help, especially to help put on my socks every morning. 😆
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Ouch! Oh I feel that pain!! Take care of you!!
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Thanks, Jess! ❤️
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Sending prayers your way. You’ll be fine cause I’m leaving you in God’s hands. 😀 😀
We’ll miss you!! ❤ ❤ Just make sure you recover well after the successful (IJMN) surgery. You're not permitted to do otherwise.
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Thanks very much, Jainey! I’m sure I’ll be fine and I’ll definitely make sure to recover well (I already had the first step done; clearing all of my work email and shutting down the darn work laptop, my inbox has never been so empty before!). 😆
And yes, ma’am! [salutes]
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Bravo! You make me so proud, Nikki.. That was truly a wise decision!
Good job, soldier! [salutes back]
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Even the laughter gets crazier each time. I believe it – craziness is contagious
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My, my. What a way to show off. 😀 Keep it up, buddy.
At this rate, you’ll soon surpass my level of craziness
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It’s okay, I’ll stop at five. 😛
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Thought as much. Not every can achieve my craziness. It’s God-given!!
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Definitely. 😆😆
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Sending prayers to you Nicolle. I just had surgery last week. Still in pain, but recovering. You will be fine. 💟
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Thanks very much, Camilla! Good to hear you’re recovering, albeit in pain. I’ll certainly be fine, just out of action for a while. 😆
Hope you’ll have a speedy recovery! ❤️
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Wishing you a speedy recovery!
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Thanks very much, Rebecca! ❤️
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Nicolle,
I hope you recover well after surgery. I’m sorry you have to go through that. You will be missed! ❤️
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Thanks very much! If all goes well, I won’t be gone for too long. ❤️😛
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Oh good! ❤️
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